Showing posts with label Dan Broderick. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dan Broderick. Show all posts
January 11, 2017
Betty Broderick Denied Parole
I have to say that I am not surprised in the least by the news released last week that Betty Broderick was again denied parole. Back in 2010 she was found unsuitable for release and it was stated that she had not emotionally matured nor grown whatsoever and it appears that she continues to make zero strides toward accepting responsibility for what she's done and expressing any kind of remorse.
She may feel like Dan deserved to die (I've always believed that Linda was collateral damage) but she's had years to prepare for this hearing. Why wouldn't she at least say she realizes what she's done and how wrong it was? I'm not advocating lying but . . . I mean, I just don't understand it.
I think Betty wants to stay in prison. She's been incarcerated since 1989. The world has changed a great deal while she's been in. She won't have to adapt, learn how to live in the 2017 world. She knows what to expect there. More importantly, I think she may enjoy playing the wronged wife.
Interestingly, if you search around various boards and forums about this case, opinion is still as divided as it was in 1989. Some people believe that Betty has been punished enough and should be freed. They are offended on her behalf that she put some clown through both medical and law schools and then was dumped for a bimbo office receptionist. Some say that while they agree that she was wronged, she still needs to pay for her crimes and should remain where she is. Others believe that Betty is a vicious killer who deserves no sympathy.
Which Betty do you believe in? Was she just a selfish, manipulative woman who killed out of spite? Was she pushed to being mentally unbalanced by a cruel man who used both the legal system and his mistress to dial up Betty? Was Betty always mentally unstable? Does she remain any of these things?
Given that I know someone who knew both Dan and Betty, I believe that Dan was a real asshole. I think he was fine with Betty supporting him and putting him through school but when he decided that he no longer wanted to participate in their marriage, he did not want to reimburse Betty in kind. Greed. And just an asshole. I also think that Linda had a cruel streak. I believe that she tormented Betty; by dictating the message on Dan's answering machine, by sending Betty pamphlets for weight loss; by sending Betty pictures of herself with Dan, with notes that indicated how happy they were. Heck, at the time of their deaths Dan and Linda were sleeping under a quilt that had belonged to Dan and Betty during their marriage. Very childish actions on an adult playground.
I think Betty may have had a twisted perception of marriage and women's roles based on her upbringing and her generation. But, again based on what I was told by someone who knew both Dan and Betty, I believe she was a good mother, at least before Linda. After Linda, I think she was psychologically damaged.
None of this means that she was justified in killing anyone. I'm sad for the children, who now have children of their own that do not know their Broderick grandparents. I'm sad that Betty herself apparently cannot recognize what she's done - - not just to Dan and Linda and her children but to herself.
Back to the Parole Board. In their decision to deny Betty, they gave her the longest denial possible - - 15 years. However, she can request an earlier hearing if she meets certain criteria.
April 26, 2016
The Broderick Case: Was It About Money?
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Linda and Dan, 1989 |
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Betty and Dan, 1969 |
The Betty Broderick saga continues to be the most popular posts on this site. For my previous posts go here and here. It appears that the case still strikes a chord with many people, although opinions are as divided as Betty and Dan were.
A response to my original post on the case referenced Dan's greediness and suggested that perhaps if Dan had been more generous with regard to his settlement with Betty, the murders may not have happened.
So let's talk money and the Broderick case.
For what it's worth, I don't believe money was at the root of the murders. Let's put this into context. It's true that Betty and Dan were living very well by the time he began an affair with Linda. Betty had been a stay at home mother for years, rearing the children and keeping an immaculate home. Prior to that, she had babysat and kept children to make ends meet while Dan attended medical school and then law school. Yes, Dan got the education and it was his professional smarts that were bankrolling the homes, cars, jewelry and fabulous trips but without Betty's sacrifice and teamwork, he wouldn't have accomplished that. By the time of their divorce in 1989, they had been married for nearly twenty years (although separated for the last few.) Even so, Betty deserved a piece of the pie.
Prior to their divorce being finalized, Dan had been paying Betty an amount he deemed appropriate (albeit a hefty amount.) Before you negate all sympathy for Betty, Dan also took it upon himself to financially penalize Betty for infractions such as leaving volatile messages on the answering machine and entering his home without approval. Despite the frustrations such actions must have caused - - because Betty would often damage the premises - - he should not have had the right to deduct monies from her support. Now, before you start feeling sorry for Dan, he did cheat on Betty for years while lying to her about it, all the while suggesting that not only was she crazy for thinking such a thing but she also needed to lose weight and do something about her appearance so that she would look younger. So let's say they were both acting like jerks.
Betty had difficulty finding and keeping a family law attorney that would be willing to go up against Dan. The legal community in general in a small one and no one in San Diego was willing to get on the wrong side of Dan Broderick. Having dealt with a drawn out divorce myself, I can attest to feelings of frustration so great that you begin to feel mentally and emotionally unhinged. Had I also had to deal with an ex who was an attorney himself and had connections all over the city that made my case difficult, I think I would have been on medication. So I can imagine the stress Betty must have felt to not only be hitting the wall in an attorney search but going through these things when she didn't want the divorce at all.
Dan also allegedly sold their family home behind Betty's back, depending on who you believe. I do think it's likely that Dan withheld funds and hid money from her but I also think that Betty did not want to deal with the sale of the home as it would firmly close the door on the marriage once and for all.
When a settlement was decided, with Betty of course not being happy about it, she was granted just over $16,000 per month. That's a ton of money and this was in 1988-1989. There is no reason she could not have lived very, very comfortably on that sum. My opinion? She didn't want to. No amount of money would have pacified her because it wasn't about the money. She didn't want the money.
She wanted Dan. Not because she was in love with him because I don't believe she was. She wanted him because she wanted the lifestyle. She didn't want to fail. And she didn't want Linda to have him.
Really, this is nothing new. This same soap opera is playing out many times every day, although perhaps less likely by persons in their forties, as Dan and Betty were at the time. What gets me though is why on earth Dan didn't change the locks of his house? Not just at the end but years earlier, when Betty was leaving vitriolic messages on his machine, breaking items in the house and ruining his clothing? Why didn't he tell her the truth when she confronted him way back in 1983 or 1984? Why didn't he leave her sooner? Why didn't he force the divorce sooner?
He was playing with fire. Maybe he knew it, maybe not. But it seems clear that he enjoyed tormenting Betty, if not the drama itself. Just as Betty enjoyed tormenting him and Linda enjoyed tormenting Betty. I said it in an earlier post but these adults were all acting like temperamental children. Neither Dan nor Linda deserved to be murdered but neither were being very smart about antagonizing Betty.
I veered off a bit on the topic at hand but to state it briefly, I don't think money played a part in these murders. Do I think Betty was humiliated by selling her La Jolla home? Absolutely. Do I think she hated living in a condo? Sure. Was she threatened by Dan? Of course. But I can't help wondering what may have been if she had just taken the alimony payments and kept her mouth shut. She would have collected nearly $200,000 from Dan a year - - that's nearly $400,000 in today's dollars. Not a shabby bit of coin.
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The bed, after |
Was Dan in love with her? Clearly money would not have been a motive for him but if he was in love with her, why did it take him so long to formally leave his wife, divorce her and marry Linda? Did Dan ever love Betty? (I'm guessing not.)
What do you think? Did Betty kill for money? Or partly because of money? Did anyone in this twisted saga love anyone besides themselves?
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September 18, 2014
Betty Broderick: Victim or Victimizer, Sane or Insane?
Well, I just can't seem to read or write enough about the Broderick case. Maybe it's because it was a landmark case for 1989. Maybe it's because I've gone through two cheating husbands myself. Or maybe it's because the case isn't necessarily black and white.
If you're familiar with Betty Broderick you probably know that she was denied parole last year. Not surprising really because 2013 Betty is essentially the same as 1989 Betty. She hasn't matured, she hasn't emotionally let go of the pain and suffering and she seems to adamantly refuse to admit any culpability in the murders she committed. Dan was to blame for their horrible honeymoon in 1969, he was to blame for their marital problems in the 70s and he was to blame for the destruction of their family in the 80s when he took up with Linda Kolkena.
I am no Dan Broderick sympathizer. I think the man was a huge bastard who was most concerned with himself and with how he looked to everyone else. I wouldn't be surprised to find out that he was a class one narcissist because he surely exhibited all the signs of one. I will concede that he was a very successful and astute attorney but while he had all the smarts in the world about medicine and the legal field, he had zero awareness about how to be a husband and father. And he clearly did not really know his wife Betty.
I have read theories that Dan had a death wish and expected - - heck, even wanted - - Betty to do him in. I don't think so. He was far too self-absorbed to ever want any harm to come to himself and I think he considered Betty too weak and stupid to do anything to him. He was the great King Dan, he provided for her very existence and her purpose was to serve him until he decided she was no longer necessary. Just my opinion.
While I don't think he had a death wish I do think he severely underestimated Betty's rage and her capability to harm others. I believe he thought she would harm herself first and that's why he (and Linda) continued to stick their hands into the snake pit. Don't play with fire if you don't want to get burned -- and Dan and Linda Broderick got burned.
I don't think Betty Broderick was mentally ill at the time Linda Kolkena started answering phones in Dan's building. I don't think she was mentally ill when Linda was promoted after she caught Dan's wandering eye and started banging her boss. I think the years of lying, the cheating, the resentment and the blame that Dan heaped upon her caused Betty to lose track of who she was and what was real. Dan reminded her over and over of his mistress and his cheating so should we really be surprised that became the focus of her life?
If you tell someone something often enough, it starts to become truth. I think Dan told Betty so many times that she was crazy and repulsive, that she was a bad mother, that it was her fault he strayed, that she was so unworthy and unloveable in so many ways that she believed it. It was said that Betty was a vivacious person pre-Linda Kolkena, that she was a lot of fun to be around and would help out anyone that needed it. That hardly sounds like the Betty Broderick of the late 80s. Remember, she was only 41 at the time of the murders (and turned 42 two days later.) Still relatively young, with her entire life in front of her if she chose to take it.
I'm sorry she didn't. She was so mindfucked by Dan and Linda and maybe even her generation that she couldn't just let go of what he did to her. She should have been grateful to lose the sorry son of a bitch who didn't appreciate what she helped to provide him with, who was still acting like a drunken frat boy into his thirties, who demeaned her verbally and emotionally and who cruelly flaunted his cheating. She should have happily taken those monthly alimony checks, which would have continued until she remarried, if she chose, or until Dan died from something other than gunshots delivered by Betty. If I had been Betty, I would have made sure to never remarry so that Dan could continue to pay out financially every month for years. Would Dan have been nearly so attractive and the catch Linda thought him to be after a few years of marriage and after a few years or more of having to pay out to Betty each month? I'm not so sure. Linda had been striving for marriage for years. She finally got it. Had she lived beyond that November of 1989, what would the future have brought her? Would she have had children of her own with old Dan or would she come to realize that dealing with Dan's behavior into his forties and fifties was not rewarding in the least?
I don't condone what Betty did. I understand why she did it but I don't agree. She proved Dan and Linda correct - - the two adulterers who claimed she was a beast, a monster and crazy. She may not have been legally crazy but she acted it when she stole a house key and broke into their house in the early morning hours to administer her own type of justice for Dan's infidelity.
And I think that's the root of the murders. Betty killed Dan because he slept with someone else. And continued sleeping with someone else, publicly humiliated her and divorced her. It may have taken her six or so years to murder Dan for it but she eventually did. Had she killed Dan back in 1983 or 1984 - - or even 1985, about when he came clean about his affair with Linda - - I think Betty would have walked. The fact that she waited for six long years, only six to seven months after Dan married the receptionist turned legal assistant, made the murders look less like crimes of passion, an explosion of emotions - - love, hate, disgust, desolation, fear - - and more like a cold and calculated punishment.
The initial trial ended in a hung jury. I think most wanted to understand Betty, to understand her motivations. Maybe they did but it was hard to reconcile an emotionally battered woman who was collecting $16,000 a month in support with the Betty Broderick who claimed she was going to shoot herself in her ex-husband's bedroom that morning.
I think too that if Betty had claimed in court that she never intended to kill herself, that she got the most recent legal filings from Dan a few days prior and just snapped, she couldn't take it anymore and shot him up - - I think she would have walked.
So back to her parole hearing of last year, in which she was denied. The logical part of my brain wonders why on earth Betty won't just admit she's remorseful and sorry for what she did and do her best to get the hell out prison? Then I realize that maybe she's secure in prison. In prison, she can continue to live in her world where Dan and Linda are still very much a presence and a threat. She can also live in a very structured environment where she is told what to do and when to do it. Exactly like when she was married to DTB III. Not a coincidence, I think.
Betty could have had it all. Instead of flourishing after separating from Dan and then being divorced, she floundered and wilted. I don't think Betty wanted to live the life of a happy single woman. I don't think she knew how to live without being told. As awful as Dan was, he did that for her for many years.
Do I think Betty was a victim? Yes. She was a victim of the time and she was a victim of Dan's, to an extent, and of Linda's. Linda was just as cruel to her in many ways as Dan was and in some instances, worse. Linda was a woman too and yet looked upon Betty with scorn instead of having respect for another woman's marriage and family. It's impossible to know what may have happened to all involved had Linda Kolkena walked away from Dan Broderick from the beginning.
I think Betty continues to be a victim of herself in the same way that she is a victimizer. She has had a streak of self-sabotage for years and years. Since the mid-80s she has done little to help herself and plenty to sink herself.
I'm not sure that Betty is insane but I am certain she is not mentally stable. Years of emotional abuse and battery have an effect. How could it not?
When Betty was denied parole she was told that no other prisoner had ever been so stagnant in making progress - - in other words, Betty had made no progress during her incarceration. In twenty years time, Betty had not improved nor emotionally grown at all. Her oldest child is now in her forties . . . the same age Betty was when she committed these murders and the same age I believe Betty remains emotionally.
I don't think Betty will ever get out. I don't think she will ever admit to herself, much less the parole board, that she is remorseful for killing Dan (and Linda was merely collateral damage) because I don't think she is capable of doing so. Dan is as much a threat to her today, in her mind, as he was more than thirty years ago. And Linda is still that twenty-something homewrecking slut that ruined Betty's life, not someone who would be more than fifty years old today if she wasn't lying in a grave.
What do you think? Is Betty victim or victimizer? Will she ever get out of prison? And does she deserve to?
I'm all ears.
June 21, 2012
Betty Broderick: Deadly Divorce
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Betty & Dan - early 1980s |
In the early morning hours of November 5, 1989, the most contemptuous and bitter divorce San Diego had ever seen came to a brutal and bloody end as Daniel T. Broderick III and his second wife Linda were shot in their marital bed by his ex-wife Elisabeth ("Betty"). Despite being big local news and making newscasts nationwide, with Betty both hailed as a hero by wronged women and as a blonde-headed devil by others, this should have come as no surprise to people who knew the inside story and especially, to Dan and Linda.
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Linda as a bride |
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Betty as a bride |
1965 - Daniel T. Broderick III and Elisabeth Bisceglia meet at a party in South Bend, Indiana
April 11, 1969 - Daniel T. Broderick III and Elisabeth Bisceglia are married in Eastchester, New York
January 1970 - Daughter Kimberly is born
July 1971 - Daughter Lee is born
1973 - After Dan graduates from Harvard Law School, the Broderick family moves to San Diego and Dan begins work with Cary, Gray
1976 - Son Danny is born
1978 - Dan leaves Cary, Gray to open his own practice
1979 - Son Rhett is born
1979 - Betty receives her real estate license
1983 - Dan hires Linda Kolkena as his personal assistant
1984 - Betty becomes fully knowledgeable about the extent of the affair between Dan and Linda after Dan admits the affair and requests a separation
1985 - Dan files for divorce
Early 1989 - After a four year legal battle, Dan and Betty Broderick are divorced
March 1989 - Betty purchases a .38 caliber Smith & Wesson handgun for "protection"
April 22, 1989 - Dan Broderick and Linda Kolkena are married
November 5, 1989 - Dan Broderick and Linda Kolkena Broderick are shot and killed by Betty Broderick
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Dan & Linda |
SENTENCING
Elisabeth Anne Broderick was convicted of two counts of second-degree murder in her second trial after her first trial ended in a hung jury. She received two consecutive terms of fifteen years to life, as well as a two year sentence for illegal use of a firearm. She is serving out her sentence at the California Institution for Women in Corona, California.
Her first parole hearing was in January of 2010. Betty was denied parole because she did not show remorse and did not acknowledge wrongdoing. She may reapply in 2013 and is due for release in 2021.
Two of her children spoke at the parole hearing, requesting release for their mother, while the other two requested that she remain incarcerated.
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Betty during one of her trials |
The Broderick case, more than 20 years on, continues to create an interesting divide in public opinion. There is a strong and vocal camp for Betty, who feels that she was wronged not only by Dan and Linda but also by the justice system and was driven to commit murder. This camp feels that she has served her time and should be freed from prison. There is an equally verbal camp who believes that Betty is a cold-hearted monster who drove Dan to Linda, who killed her ex-husband and his new wife out of jealousy and is exactly where she belongs and where she should stay.
Was Betty a victim? Were Dan and Linda innocent victims? Did Betty drive Dan away? Was Dan cold and unfeeling? Was Linda a shameless golddigging homewrecker?
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Dan's final resting place; Linda's name is on the headstone but she has reportedly been laid to rest elsewhere |
I think the truth, as is usually the case, lies somewhere in the middle. It's a well known fact that all was not well in the Broderick marriage before Linda Kolkena entered the picture. Both Betty and Dan seemed to place appearance, status and money fairly high on their priority list. When you focus on those things solely, your marriage and your family is going to get lost in the shuffle. I personally think that Dan was hitting his late-thirties, had been married for 15 or so years, and was looking for a little excitement. He had a wife who was probably not easy to live with, four children, a busy and involving law practice, an exorbitant lifestyle and salary.
I think Betty was a woman of her generation - - her role began and ended with being Mrs. Daniel T. Broderick. She may not have been happy with Dan and with her marriage but she was happy with her place in life and in society. In her world, you didn't throw away your marriage. You didn't leave your wife for the office receptionist. You didn't divorce.
Bottom line, I think if Dan had been honest with Betty from the beginning and come clean about his affair with Linda, none of what followed would have happened. There is no doubt in my mind that Betty would have taken Dan back if he had just taken a tumble with Linda and then returned home. Just as there is no doubt in my mind that years of lying, years of being told she was imaging things, years of having his affair rubbed in his face, of not knowing what was happening, of not being able to control it and properly deal with it, caused Betty to lose it.
I am not defending Betty, although I do understand why she did it. Having been in a relationship with a self-involved cheater, liar and general narcissistic fuckwit myself in my early 20s, I remember the feeling of absolute devastation, the grief, the questions, the anger, the rage and, most of all, the hopelessness, helplessness and fear I felt. I was so consumed by his wrongdoing that I felt powerless to help myself out of it - - for a time. That, of course, is the difference between me and Betty. She let Dan's actions and Linda's actions consume her entire life and take over - - permanently, it seems. Even today, she still seems to act and react like it's still 1989. Dan and Linda are both long dead and Betty is still being victimized by them.
It's sad, really. I can't help but have sympathy for the woman Dan and Linda called "The Beast". She may have been a pain in the ass to live with but Dan married her. He chose to have children with her. He stayed married to her for sixteen years. He let her raise their children by herself, work different jobs to allow him to go to school to get his M.D. and then his J.D. She was thanked with a long-term affair, name-calling, questionable legal tactics and some flat out harassment.
So let me talk about Linda for a minute. When I first read Until the Twelfth of Never back during my early 20s/narcissistic fuckwit period, I absolutely despised Linda Kolkena and had zero sympathy for her. I felt she got what she deserved. Twenty years later, I still see her as a selfish homewrecker but I do have a bit of sympathy for her. Why? Because she was headed down the same path as Betty. She entered Dan Broderick's orbit as a receptionist with only a high school education. She had been fired from Delta Airlines (where she was a flight attendant) for inappropriate behavior with a passenger. She was "promoted" from temporary receptionist to Dan's legal assistant/paralegal due to his personal relationship with her. As a degreed paralegal myself, it's insulting to insinuate that someone with no legal experience or background, nor the ability to even type, can man the phones for a couple of months and then just slide into a paralegal position and perform the job accordingly, as Linda's family and friends have insisted in the past. Linda got the paralegal title and "job" because she was screwing her boss, that's the truth. But just like Betty, Linda's life revolved around Dan. She waited around for six years while Dan dithered over whether to leave Betty, end his marriage, marry his mistress. Either she was in love, determined or both. She broke up with Dan once, due to Dan's indecision on whether to end his marriage, but she didn't quit her job and the break didn't last long. She turned away a man who claimed to genuinely love her to wait around for Dan. Had she lived, she likely would have spent her married life much as Betty did - - doing for Dan, waiting for Dan, everything for Dan. Except for her youth as an excuse, it's shocking that Linda appeared to have no sympathy, no compassion, no understanding for Betty - - the woman she was effectively replacing -- whatsoever. On her own, or through Dan's vitriol, she viewed Betty as crazy, deranged, a monster, a beast. I can't help but wonder if she and Dan had lived, if she would have found herself in Betty's shoes, or if she would have put Dan in Betty's shoes. A question that will never be answered.
Did Linda love Dan? Or Dan's money? Did Dan love Linda? It's been said that Linda cheated on Dan weeks before their wedding with an ex-boyfriend. It does make you wonder how deep her commitment was. For his part, Dan strung Linda along for years, while cohabiting with his wife. Later on, she was concerned with Betty breaking into their house and expressed this concern to a fellow attorney. She even requested that Dan wear a bulletproof vest at their wedding. Dan refused. Neither did he act upon her fear of Betty breaking into the house; there was no alarm when Betty did indeed commit her deadly break-in. Perhaps most importantly, when their bodies were found on the morning of November 5, 1989, Linda looked as though she had been moving toward Dan, perhaps for protection, when she was shot and killed. Dan's body was located on the floor, away from Linda, as if he had been moving away from the bed to save himself, not trying to protect his new bride. Maybe the blast from the gun propelled him from the bed, we may never know. But Dan seemed to continually act in his own best interests, not in his children's, not in Betty's and not in Linda's.
This story is just sad all around and claims many victims. Dan and Linda Broderick lost their lives. They may not have been sympathetic but their actions did not constitute murder. I see Betty as a victim as well. She was (and continues to be) a victim of Dan and Linda but she's also a victim of herself. She's locked up physically in a prison cell but she appears to be locked up mentally as well. She simply cannot let go of what Dan did. Listening to her you would think Dan committed adultery three months ago, not thirty years ago.
I don't think Betty will ever be paroled and if she is, it won't be for a while. She has never expressed remorse over the murders. She has never admitted that she went to that house to murder Dan and Linda. If she would admit these things, she may likely be given parole. I also think she's being used as a poster child of sorts, for the San Diego legal system to show the public what will happen if you try to take them on. Many people have committed murder, and first-degree murder, and received less time than Betty. I'm not saying that twenty years compensates for the loss of two lives but there most certainly is not equality in the system.
The most easily forgotton victims in this case are the Broderick children - -now adults. Dan's selfish actions fractured the family. Betty's selfish actions took not only their father away permanently but also removed their mother from their lives. In that sense, Betty did far more to destroy the Broderick family; she left the Broderick boys, still minors at the time, orphaned, dependent on various family members to raise them and care for them. I feel sorry for them. They grew up in a house parented by two people who clearly should not have married and who acted in a more childish manner than the actual children themselves.
For more information on the Broderick case and murders, the best source is Bella Stumbo's outstanding book, The Twelfth of Never. It's unbiased, setting forth the facts in a straightforward manner and does not take sides.
There have been two movies made about the murders and Betty's two trials, Betty Broderick: A Woman Scorned and Her Final Fury: Betty Broderick, the Last Chapter. Both movies star Meredith Baxter, who bears a remarkable resemblance to Betty. However, both movies were made with the cooperation of Dan Broderick's brother, Larry, and the Kolkena family and as such, are heavily biased to represent that Dan and Linda were not involved until after his divorce, that no harassment went on, no shady legal manuevers and Betty was an absolute loon from the get-go. Meredith Baxter's performance is excellent, if inaccurate, and the movies should be viewed only for entertainment value and not for specifics on the case.
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The murder house in Hillcrest |
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The back door where Betty snuck in |
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Dan & Linda's bedroom where they were murdered |
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