Showing posts with label Spousal murders. Show all posts
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February 19, 2021

The Disappearance of Jami Hagel Sherer

 

Jami (photo source: imdb)

Jami

Jami Hagel was a pretty, outgoing 22-year old in 1986 when she first met Steven Sherer.  Unfailingly happy and never moody, the only daughter of a family with three sons, she had been a feisty tomboy in her childhood and teens who had loved horses, baseball and climbing trees and was fearless.  She delighted in her younger twin brothers and had a very close relationship with her mother, Judy, which never wavered, even into adolescence and adulthood.  

The energetic girl matured into a caring and compassionate young woman who retained the bubbly, outgoing, and friendly nature of her youth.  She had a serious high school boyfriend, one she began dating during her sophomore years and with for five or six years, remaining friendly with him thereafter.  Jami not only kept her bonds with her school friends but with her family as well.  Even after moving out of the family home and into, first, an apartment she shared with a roommate and then into her own apartment in Redmond, Washington, less than ten miles from the Hagels' home in Bellevue, she called Judy four or five times a week and spent most weekends with her parents and siblings.  She had a secure job with a computer company and her life was just beginning to blossom in front of her when Steven Sherer entered her world.

The first time that Jami's parents saw Steve Sherer, he rode up on a motorcycle with Jami.  He was proud of the motorcycle as he had bought it from his winnings at the racetrack, as Judy Hagel recalled.  The Hagels were less than impressed with Steve.  While Jami had previously brought home boyfriends that were polite and took every opportunity to be friendly, Steve Sherer was completely uninterested in Judy and Jerry Hagel and anxious to leave their home.  At that time, neither Jami's family nor friends were overly concerned, feeling that she couldn't seriously be interested in someone like him.

Steve (photo source: CrimeMysteryandMayhem)

Steve

Steve had been born in California to a 22-year-old father and 17-year-old mother.  Like Jami's parents, Steve's father David originally came from North Dakota.  David was a bricklayer but he possessed business savvy and wasn't afraid of hard work.  He moved his young family that included Steve's mother Sherri, Steve and Saundra to Washington (youngest daughter Laura would be born there) as the building boom was happening.  Thanks to fortuitous timing and drive, David David started a construction company and bought cheap acreage in what would end up being the Seattle suburb of Mill Creek.  Although Steve physically resembled his father, he possessed none of David Sherer's drive and ambition.  They did, however, share a love of alcohol which caused many problems in his marriage with Sherri.  In an attempt to wean himself off alcohol and get himself together, in November of 1983 he left their Washington home to head for their Palm Desert, California home (the Sherers also owned homes in Rancho Mirage, California and Scottsdale, Arizona).  David was reportedly distraught over the state of his marriage, a fact that was certainly not helped by being alone around the Thanksgiving holidays.  

He was apparently intoxicated when Sherri called him on  Thanksgiving evening and again, several hours later.  David reportedly told her he would be better off without him and stated he had a gun and was going to do something about it.  The comment apparently didn't worry Sherri enough to contact law enforcement; she later said she didn't believe him.  Despite that, she got on a plane to California, arriving around 11 p.m. on Friday, November 25.  Arriving at their Palm Desert house, she found David sitting on the sofa, a wound from the blast of a .32 caliber automatic gun in his right temple.  The gun was found on the carpet next to the sofa.  An empty shell casing was beside it.  Forty-four year old David was already in rigor mortis and his body showed signs of lividity, indicating he had been dead for some time.  Investigators from the Riverside County Coroner's Office discovered a bullet hole in the north wall of the den with blood spatter and what appeared to be bone fragments staining the nearby wall.  Other than that, the house was neat and clean.  David himself had been full dressed and had no defensive wounds on his hands.  Although he had left no suicide note, his blood alcohol level was .10 percent, legally intoxicated.  His death was classified a suicide and his body was sent back to Washington for burial.   Although there was no evidence that Steve accompanied his mother to California, rumors would remain that Steve had killed his father.         

When he met Jami, Steve was twenty-four, only two years older than Jami, but he seemed completely unlikely to be her type.  He stood only five-foot-seven, but still towered over the tiny Jami, who was five feet tall and not even a hundred pounds.  What he lacked in height, though, he made up for in personality, which could alternate between charming and abrasive.  On first meeting Jami, he turned on the charm, telling her that he was the son of a very wealthy family and his being flush with money seemed to support that.  Not that she cared about the money; she was attracted to Steve's strong personality.

Jami, surrounded by her family on her wedding day
(photo source: tvnow.de)

Jami and Steve

What Jami's family and friends didn't know was that Steve Sherer had a lengthy rap sheet, a nasty temper and an addiction to gambling, alcohol and drugs.  He had little respect for women, jumping from girl to girl, much as he jumped from job to job.  

Shortly after beginning to date her, he questioned Jami about men she had known before him.  He called Jami's high school boyfriend and threatened to kill him, only stopping once Jami got on the line to apologize for Steve's behavior.  Jami was so young that she believed Steve's controlling and possessing ways were a sign that he was in love with her.  His jealousy, at least then, made her feel secure.     

Steve's run-ins with law enforcement ranged from assault to resisting arrest to malicious mischief and always seemed to stem from alcohol and women.  He had a type - pretty, petite blondes with big breasts - and never seemed to be without them, although the relationships would burn out due to his emotional, verbal, and physical abuse, not to mention threats and stalking.  Many of the women were smart, educated and confident, like Jami - at least before they got involved with him.  He seemed to have a power over them, controlling them and keeping them close long after they should have left.  

Even after he started dating Jami Hagel, Steve continued to harass, threaten and physically assault his previous girlfriend, who had gotten a restraining order against him.  Unbelievably, both his ex-girlfriend and Jami lived in the same apartment building, something Steve had arranged to make everything more convenient for him.  Both women knew about the other and both thought the other was the true problem; neither seemed to realize that Steve Sherer was the real problem.  The other woman finally left the triangle after Steve threw a shot glass at her, causing a concussion and deep gash in her scalp, and threatened to kill her in front of law enforcement.  He was convicted of second-degree assault.  The other woman's freedom, however, meant that Steve transferred all of his attention to Jami Hagel.  

For her part, Jami was determined to marry Steve.  As he liked his women very thin, she gave up her favorite candy, M&Ms, to fit his ideal.  He liked blonde women and so she dyed her pretty brunette hair blonde to satisfy him.  Her personality also shifted, taking her from one a confident and zealous young woman to a nervous, submissive one.  A true abuser, Steve systematically distanced Jami from her friends and family, even going so far as to move them to California.  (The move also had to do with a residential burglary he had committed in which stereo equipment, jewelry and a handgun were stolen.)  Soon, Jami's entire world was Steve and about making him happy.   Judy Hagel had seen purpling bruises on Jami's arms and legs and she, along with Jami's other loved ones, hoped that the two would never marry.



Jami as a bride (photo source: Charley Project)

Marital Ties and Arrests

In November of 1986, however, the two were engaged, with Steve giving Jami a diamond engagement ring appraised at $13,500.  On his suggestion, the couple had the ring insured, along with their other possessions. That same month, Steve called the Riverside County Sheriff's Department to report that someone had broken into their mobile home and stolen a number of their possessions, including Jami's engagement ring, valued at over $32,000.  Despite their uneasiness over the timing of the policy and then alleged burglary, the insurance company paid the claim.  Steve had expensive tastes, however, and the money did not last long, sending the couple back to Washington.  While the Hagels were happy that Jami was back in Washington, they were distressed by her appearance -- very blonde and very, very thin.  Steve had also decided that Jami needed bigger breasts and so she agreed to get implants, a surgery that turned out to be very painful for her.  The implants left her very top-heavy and out of proportion for her petite size; Jami soon regretted the decision but Steve was thrilled with the results.  

Before their marriage in July of 1987, the two separated several times but always got back together.  Steve served a 60-day sentence in the county lock-up in May of 1987 for residential burglary but that didn't dissuade Jami.  Rather than realizing her freedom and regaining her spirit, she was miserable while he was gone and filled with anxiety and terror at the thought that he might break up with her. 

Jami had started a new job with Microsoft, something she thrived at and loved.  Steve too had found a new love:  cocaine.  Cocaine fueled many of their fights, particularly when Jami would hide some of his stash from him.  Steve would eventually draw Jami's brothers and Jami herself into addiction as well, although not nearly as deep as his own.  

Their wedding was a lovely one and although the Hagels were not happy with their daughter's choice, they determined to give her the best wedding they could.  Steve, only two months out of jail, wore a white tux and had bleached his hair very, very blonde.  Although traditional in her choice of china patterns, wedding showers, invitations and all other things bridal, Jami chose a low-cut dress that  showed off her enhanced breasts, much to Steve's approval.    

Within months of their marriage and while still in their honeymoon period, Steve was once again arrested, this time for drunk driving.  While under arrest and at the Bellevue police station, he leapt at an officer, attempting to choke him with both hands and threatening to kill him.  The officer later remembered Steve Sherer's eyes and the look in them, convincing him that he would have died had another officer not intervened.  

Despite being convicted of felonious assault, Steve served little time and walked away with community supervision.  He always seemed to have incredible luck in avoiding spending much time incarcerated or serving an appropriate sentence for his crimes.

When Steve wasn't sober, he was increasingly derisive and cruel to Jami.  She knew his faults but she loved him and shifted the blame to others.  When confronted by her mother over the insurance fraud they had committed in California, Jami claimed she had not known what was going on until it was too late.  She made excuses for Steve when he insisted on Jami accounting for every minute of her day and even called her repeatedly, sometimes as often as every 15 minutes, while she was visiting her parents in Bellevue.  

The only area that Jami stood firm on was her job.  Steve had cost her jobs before she was hired at Microsoft and joining that company, Jami worked her way up to the human resources department, where she was considered a valuable employee.  At work, unlike at home, Jami was confident, outgoing and friendly; none of her coworkers guessed how dire her home life was.   She had carefully compartmentalized her professional and private life.

It was around this time she found out she was pregnant.  Jami was thrilled at the prospect of being a mother.  While Steve was impressed with his own virility, he had little to no interest in putting family first; he was still most interested in gambling, drinking and doing cocaine.  When Jami went into false labor at work one day, Steve told her coworker that he was watching something on TV and would come to the hospital when it was over.  Although Jami wanted her mother in the delivery room with her when she gave birth, Steve wouldn't allow it.  He told Jami that if Judy Hagel were there, he wouldn't be.  He eventually relented when Jami was in hard labor and did allow Judy to be present for the birth of their son, Tyler.  

While Tyler instantly became the center of Jami's world, Steve proved to be as indifferent a father as he was a husband.  If Jami were at work and he had somewhere to go (as he rarely managed to hold down a job for long) and Jami's parents weren't available, he would simply take the child with him, even if it were to the racetrack.  He also threatened Jami's parents, telling them if they interfered with the marriage, he would take Jami and Tyler and move out of state.  His verbal and emotional outbursts became more frequent and physical, ending in him hitting and punching Jami and even pulling her around by the hair.   

On November 5, 1989, police were called to their Bothell, Washington home on a domestic dispute call.  The responding officer found Jami, hysterical and holding Tyler, with red blotches on her face and a bloody spot on her scalp where her hair had been pulled out.  A long lock of her hair, with the scalp attached, was lying on the kitchen table.  Although Jami called her parents to come and get her and Tyler, after several days of phone calls and flower deliveries, she once again returned to her husband.  Jami refused to testify against Steve, thinking she was saving their marriage and providing Tyler with both a mother and a father, and so the charges against him were dismissed.   

Like many couples on the brink of collapse, the Sherers thought that buying a house would fix their problems.  With stock Jami now had at Microsoft as collateral, Steve's mother agreed to loan the couple the money to purchase a split-level home with a yard in Redmond.  Although Jami had initially wanted the house, she told friends that she probably wouldn't stay with her husband after they moved into it.  She seemed to finally realize, in 1990, that neither her marriage nor Steve was going to change.  If not for herself, she wanted to change things for her son.  In May, they closed on the house; Jami still wasn't quite ready to leave.  

She had suspected that Steve had been unfaithful but there could have been no doubt when, after moving into their new home, he urged her to join him in "swinging."  Although impotent due to the quantities of drugs and alcohol he was consuming, he took ads out in swingers' magazines without telling Jami.  During one of his sporadic periods of work, he had little discretion in talking about his sex life with his wife, even claiming that they hosted orgies at their home.  

Even while working, he still managed to call Jami continuously while she was working and even went so far as to show up on the Microsoft campus and stand outside, watching her windows, as if he sensed that she was slowly inching away from him. 

Jami, around the time of her disappearance (photo source: Charley Project)

Missing

Ironically, it was Steve that put the catalyst into place.  Joe Graham*, like Steve, was a cocaine addict; in fact, he was one of Steve's sources to score the drug and had been for a number of years.  He was married but had separated from his wife and so spent many nights sleeping on the Sherers' sofa.  Steve suggested that Joe make up a sexual threesome with himself and Jami, something that embarrassed both Joe and Jami.  As Steve was often impotent due to his excessive drug and alcohol consumption, his suggested threesome because a twosome between Joe and Jami that Steve not only watched but filmed.  One thing he didn't consider was Joe forming a relationship with Jami that didn't include him.  Jami eventually confessed to Joe the abuse Steve subjected her to and Joe was disgusted.  

By September of 1990, Jami seemed to be optimistic over a new life with Joe and was finally ready to leave Steve.  Joe Graham was certainly no catch but he gave her the strength to face Steve and take her life back.

On Friday night, September 28, 1990, Jami visited her parents and left Tyler with her mother.  On Saturday, September 29, she spent the day with Joe.  She lied to her parents and to Steve about where she was, saying that she was going to a promotional event in nearby Tacoma with a girlfriend.  Steve spent part of that Saturday with Jami's twin brothers, Rich and Rob, who later remembered how angry Steve seemed and how he commented of what he would do to Jami if he ever caught her cheating on him.

Judy Hagel spoke to Jami around seven that night, when Jami called to say she would be a little late in picking Tyler up.  Around two a.m., Steve called Judy to ask if Jami was at the Hagel house.  Judy answered in the negative but was concerned.  It wasn't like Jami to stay out that late but Judy tried to rationalize that Jami must have stayed the night with the girlfriend she had spent the day with.

At 7:30 on the morning of Sunday, September 30, Steve called Judy once again to say that Jami had come home and was on her way over to pick up Tyler.  Judy's relief turned to elation when Jami showed up and announced to her parents that she wanted to move home.  Jami confessed to her mother that she had spent the previous day with Joe, something that Judy did not approve of.  Then the phone calls from Steve started.  Jami took one of the calls and at last told Steve that the marriage was over, she no longer loved him and wanted a divorce.  Steve begged her to speak to him face to face and she eventually agreed, over Judy's protestations, and left for their arranged meeting.  She soon called to say that she was at her Redmond home as Steve had taken her purse from her and gone to their house; she had driven there to retrieve it and pack some clothes for herself and Tyler.  She was going to take a shower and then return to Bellevue.  Three hours later, at 11:45, Jami called once again to say she was on her way and would be stopping at Taco Time, her favorite fast food restaurant, to bring food.  It was the last time Judy Hagel ever spoke to Jami.

The calls from Steve began at 12:15.  Told Jami was not there, he called again at 12:30.  However, he broke with his usual pattern of calling every 15 minutes and went silent until 6:30 that evening.  Judy assumed that Jami must have been with Steve and might have gone back on her decision to leave him.  Steve showed up at the Hagel home, picked up Tyler and took him home.  By 9:30, though, he called Judy and asked if he and Tyler could return.  Arriving back, he told Judy that he hadn't heard from Jami all day.  

The following day, Monday, October 1, 1990, Judy began calling Jami's office at Microsoft at 7:30 in the morning.  Her concern became full-fledged terror when her daughter did not answer and never showed up for work.  She was so frightened that she called Joe Graham's wife in her search for Jami.  Joe's wife had Joe call Judy; Joe was as unnerved as Jami's mother.  He said he had begged her not to go back to the Redmond house.   Judy called the Redmond Police Department and reported Jami Hagel Sherer as a missing person.

Jami's friends launched searches of their own, with the Hagels' Bellevue home as grand zero.  Microsoft printed up thousands of flyers with pictures of a smiling Jami on them and gave many of their employees paid leave to join in the search for her.  Although Steve was staying at the Hagel home, he didn't join in the search for his wife or distribute the flyers.  He played the victim, speaking of how terrible things were for him and how Jami's disappearance could happen to him.   From the start, Steve was the prime suspect but he repeatedly denied any involvement in his wife's disappearance and unlike Joe Graham, was less than willing to speak to the police.   

Steve cashed out Jami's Microsoft stocks (stocks that would have made her a millionaire had she lived) and began going out to bars with her undergarments tied around his arm and her diamond necklace around his neck, claiming they made him feel closer to her.  His sister noticed a red spot on the carpet in the Redmond house and notified the police.  A friend of the Sherers said that he saw a shovel in Steve's truck on October 1, the day after Jami disappeared.  It stuck out in  his mind because he had never noticed a shovel in Steve's truck before.  

On October 5,  police found Jami's 1980 Mazda RX-7 in a church parking lot in Shoreline, a community just over 20 miles from her home in Redmond.  In the car was a suitcase containing some of her clothing but, interestingly, only sports clothes and no underwear.  The driver's seat of the car had been pushed far back, as if a tall person had last been driving.  The tiny Jami would not have been able to reach the pedals with the seat in that position.   Perhaps coincidentally, perhaps not, it was Steve's maternal uncle, a King County sheriff's deputy, who responded to a call about the abandoned car.  The deputy said that Steve had called him and asked him to search for Jami's car in his patrol area.   A rescue bloodhound, after picking up a scent from the headrest of the driver's seat, tracked it along the I-5 to a bus stop on the off-ramp and then lost it, suggesting the person whose scent the dog picked up got on a bus.  At the Sherer home, different bloodhounds were given scent from Jami's clothing; they were unable to track it.  However, when given a scent from Steve's pants, they tracked the exact same route the first bloodhound had tracked to the bus station.  

When Jami's car was processed, it was found the car alarm had not been set and keys to the car were found in the pocket of the ladies' leather coat found on the passenger seat.  In a small manila envelope secreted under the driver's side of the console were Jami's diamond wedding ring and a diamond-studded wristwatch.    There was no blood and no fingerprints that might give police any idea what might have happened to Jami and where she might be.    

On October 8, Steve allowed police to walk through his house, where they noted the red stain Steve's sister had been concerned about, as well as a stain near the downstairs door to the garage.  A day later, he had the carpets in the home professionally cleaned.  He told patrons at a bar later that afternoon that he was happy and "the bitch is gone," despite having told police the day before he missed Jami.

The Redmond house (photo source: FindAGrave)

On October 10, just before two p.m., a 911 operator received an emergency call from the Sherers' Redmond home.  Steve had apparently attempted to kill himself in the garage with carbon monoxide poisoning.  Found semiconscious, he had trouble speaking and moving and his condition was determined to be critical.  He was airlifted to a hospital in Seattle while detectives determined that Steve had placed a picture of Jami on their wedding day on the seat next to him and had used a cordless phone to call 911 himself.  He left a note apologizing for what he was supposedly planning to do and saying that he could not live without Jami.   Although he was placed on a respirator, Steve Sherer survived.  Detectives doubted he had any true intention of killing himself, as he had called 911 in plenty of time to be rescued.  

The following month, in November of 1990, Steve went on a date with a woman, informing her he was a recent widower who had lost his wife in a car accident.  Eventually he would tell others that Jami had fallen victim to the Green River Killer or she had been taken away by another man.   

Reinvestigation 

Time went on.  Jami did not contact her family, she did not use her credit cards or her bank account, nor did she apply for new ones.  The flyers throughout the city, tacked on telephone poles and taped to windows, began to fade.  Other cases took priority over hers.  In June of 1991, Steve got into a fight outside a bar with a man who pulled a pistol and shot him in the forearm.  In 1992, he was back in jail for using cocaine and failing to meet with his probation officer, violations of his probation.  That same year, he sold the Redmond house, which led to him being sued by his mother for return of the money she had loaned him and Jami toward the purchase.

The Hagels hired private detectives, none of whom could deliver on their promises of finding Jami.  They were awarded custody of Tyler and raised him in a loving environment, accepting that Jami was dead.   Steve saw his son infrequently and when he did, Tyler was hardly a priority.  

In May of 1997, Jami was declared legally dead.  A few months before that, a new investigation was begun into her disappearance.  Detectives followed leads that led them to California, Arizona, Hawaii, Wisconsin, North Carolina, British Columbia, Germany and even Colombia and spoke to hundreds of people.    

In the fall of 1998,  Steve, who had moved to Arizona, returned to Washington to surrender on his multitude of drunk-driving warrants and was sentenced to eight months in the King County Jail.  Detectives continued investigating him; many people, including his ex-girlfriends of more than a decade, who had been afraid to speak out against him when he was free became more willing when he was behind bars.  By October, prosecutors began presenting evidence and witnesses before an inquiry judge, including Joe Graham, who had moved to Idaho.  Steve Sherer was presented as a mean, sadistic individual who had been in run-ins with the law since he was 18 and routinely flouted not only the law but had regularly humiliated women, including his wife.   By the time he was released from jail in late May of 1999, Steve knew the clock was ticking on him.

He was arrested once more, in June of 1999 for threatening a police officer and a senior deputy prosecutor, for which he was bailed out, before the end finally came.  On January 8, 2000, eight months shy of a decade after Jami disappeared into oblivion, Steve Sherer was arrested on the charge of first-degree murder.  His bail was set a a million dollars. 

Guilty (photo source: seattlepi.com)

Trial and Conviction

His trial was scheduled to begin on April 17, 2000 but it would take until May 3 before a jury was chosen and seated.  

Among the witnesses for the prosecution was a former girlfriend of Steve's, one who was only sixteen or seventeen when she dated him after Jami's disappearance.  She testified that he admitted to her that he had gotten in a physical altercation with Jami at the Redmond house and had given her a bloody nose.  He also told her about the insurance scam in California, where he had taken things from the house he shared with Jami and pretended they were stolen.  According to her, he used part of the insurance proceeds to pay for Jami's breast augmentation.  It did not go unnoticed by the jury, when shown photos of how she looked back in 1991, that she bore an eerie resemblance to Jami.  

Another witness testified that he had cleaned the carpet in the Redmond home after Jami's disappearance (and after the police had done a search).  He said that an area in the basement by the door to the garage had urine and fecal stains, where somebody or something had evacuated.  Steve had blamed it on the dog and eventually had that patch of carpet replaced and primer put down on the flooring underneath.  After multiple cleanings and treatments with Kilz, no criminologist could say exactly who or what had lost bodily fluids there.

Compared to the prosecution, the defense had much fewer witnesses to call - Steve had never had many true friends.  And so they attempted to besmirch Jami's image as a loving mother and daughter.  Their first motion was to enter into evidence a videotape of Jami having sex with both Steve and Joe Graham, filmed and directed by Steve.  With the threat of many court watchers vowing to leave the courtroom if the video was shown, the judge refused to allow it.  The defense still did their best to make Jami out to be a woman of little or no morals who had left her life of her own accord.  

Most court watchers were waiting to see if Steve would take the stand in his own defense - and were disappointed when the defense rested without the jury hearing from him.  Given that Steve was a loose cannon, given to furious outbursts, his attorneys couldn't afford to subject him to cross-examination. 

The case went to the jury on June 1, 2000.  The eight women and four men spent nearly seven full days deliberating and examining the evidence.  Even without her body, they were all in agreement that Jami was dead.  They needed to decide if Steve was responsible for her death.  Normally, the longer a jury stays out, the better for the defense.  Not so in this case.

On Thursday, June 8, the jury reached its verdict.  Steve Sherer was found guilty of first-degree premeditated murder and guilty of second-degree felony murder.  It was one of the only times in Washington's history that a conviction was won without a body.  He was shocked, as he had told several people he expected to be going home that day.  He told the jurors that when Jami came back, they could "rot in hell."   The jurors had already been excused when he made his next outburst, this time to Judy Hagel, to whom he yelled "Fuck you, Judy!" 

On July 22, 2000, Steve was sentenced to sixty years in prison.  The judge said he based his decision on the emotional scars Tyler Sherer, then 12 years old, would have throughout his life, thanks to his father killing his mother.  He also cited how much planning Steve likely had done to murder Jami and then prolong her family's suffering by continuing to insist she was alive and not letting them know where her body was.  His lack of remorse also did him no favors.  Always a classic abuser, when leaving the courtroom after sentencing, Steve faced Judy Hagel once again and this time, he blew her a kiss.  

Steve's mother told the gathered reporters that she did not believe her son was guilty and the "injustice" would be appealed, at which time "it will all come out then." 

Life Following Lockup

Like Mark Winger, Steve Sherer's story did not end with his incarceration.    He was sent to the Washington State Prison near Walla Walla to serve his sentence.  In May of 2001, he paid $80 for a "pen-pal" ad on prisonpals.com, submitting three studio portraits of himself from 1998.  He claimed "my main goal for doing this is to meet a companion or very close friend."  Adding he's "a sun and outdoor type of guy" who loves sports and his son, he was seeking "an attractive and honest woman who isn't very religious" and with "no sexual hang-ups."   If such a woman was "willing to take a chance and look past the charge I'm being held for, which I did not do," Steve was happy to have this woman write to him and see "where this goes."  

As his mother had promised, he filed an appeal, stating that the evidence presented against him was insufficient to warrant a claim of premeditated first-degree murder.  He also claimed that the jury should not have heard self-incriminating statements that were provided by witnesses, nor his history of violence against Jami; he had attempted to block those during the trial but the trial court had denied his motions.  He also felt the trial court had erred in allowing witnesses to testify they had seen him assault Jami.  The appeals court sided with the trial court in all matters and denied his appeal.

News broke in the spring of 2003 that in December of 2001, while he was preparing his appeal, Steve had approached a cellmate and asked him to set fire to a house in Bellevue - the home where Jami's mother and Steve's own son lived.   The cellmate would be paid for the arson with $17,000 in jewels that Steve said were buried beneath a Mill Creek house.  The motive seemed to be revenge for Judy Hagel's testimony during his trial.  Police had received a tip on the arson plot at the end of 2001 and found it credible enough to begin listening to Steve's prison phone calls and bugging his cell.  When the cellmate was released in February of 2002, police searched him and found a book with Judy Hagel's address and driving directions.  He admitted he had agreed to burn down the house in exchange for the jewelry and cooperated with police rather than be returned to prison.  He told law enforcement the entire arson plan, as well as Steve wanting him to show proof that he had burned down the house. 

Even more amazing was that arson wasn't the only thing on Steve's mind.  He had wanted the people in the house killed, although he never disclosed to his cellmate who the people were who lived in the house.  His former mother-in-law and his own son weren't the only people he wished to eliminate.  Steve also wanted his cellmate to kill Marilyn Brenneman, the attorney who had prosecuted him, and her four children.  He had offered the Brenneman hit to a former cellmate but that cellmate had wisely chosen not to accept.  

The Bellevue Fire Department, working with the police, staged a fire at the Hagel home, generating enough smoke to make it look like the house was burning.  A local newspaper, who also was lending a helping hand, reported that the house could have been targeted.  That article was then mailed to Steve, who responded by mailing his former cellmate directions to his mother's previous house in Mill Creek.  At that location, according to Steve, the cellmate would find jewelry buried in a crawl space. The property was searched but no jewelry (or cash) was found.

Steve was charged and convicted of solicitation to commit arson; that jury needed less than two hours to find him guilty.  As it was his third conviction under Washington's persistent offender law (the other two being his conviction for Jami's murder and a 1987 felony assault charge), Steve was automatically sentenced to life in prison.  

Inmates at Washington State Prison have reported that Steve Sherer repeatedly told them that he strangled Jami because she was going to leave him and he hid her body.   Judy Hagel believes that Steve did indeed strangle her daughter at the top of the stairs and Jami fell down them, leaving the stains on the carpet below.  

Steven Sherer is currently incarcerated at the Clallam Bay Corrections Center on the Olympic Peninsula in the western part of Washington, where he serves his sentences alongside nearly 900 other inmates.   

Jami and her father Jerry (photo source: Dignity Memorial)

Jami's father Jerry died in 2016 at the age of 75, following a battle with cancer.  A memorial to his daughter was added to his headstone, complete with Jami's picture, which reads:  "Deeply missed, forever loved."  

Tyler Sherer, who was two years old when his mother vanished, is today 33 years old, older than his mother was when she died.  She has been gone more years than she lived.  

Jami Hagel Sherer's body has never been found.

*pseudonym  

(photo source: FindAGrave)


February 10, 2021

Mark Winger: From Hero Husband To Murder Suspect


Donnah and Mark (photo source: CBS News)


The End of the Dream 

When Donnah Brown married Mark Winger in 1989, it seemed the beginning of a fairy tale.  Mark was a nuclear engineer for the state of Illinois making $72,000 a year (over $150,000 in 2020 coin) and Donnah worked as an operating room technician.  The only thing that appeared to be missing was a fam
ily.  When Donnah discovered she could not have children, the couple adopted a baby girl named Bailey in June of 1995.  

Donnah took their new daughter to visit her mother and stepfather in Florida in August and upon returning to the St. Louis airport she took a shuttle to the Wingers' home in Springfield, which was an hour and a half away.  The shuttle was driven by a young man named Roger Harrington.  

Roger
(photo source: True Crime XL) 

Twenty-seven year old Roger had been working for the company for only six months.  During the ride with Donnah, she reported that he was speeding and related having an out of body experience while he was driving.  He made Donnah nervous and she immediately informed Mark of what had transpired during the drive.  Mark called the company and made a complaint to Roger's boss while Donnah, at Mark's insistence, wrote a letter detailing the incident.  The company responded by suspending Roger. 

On August 29, police and paramedics were called to the Wingers' home on Westview Drive.  Donna, 31 years old, lay on the dining room floor on her stomach.  A pool of blood spread out beneath her and blood spatter marks colored the furniture, a nearby wall and the ceiling about her.  She had been beaten about the back of her head.  

A few feet away from Donnah lay Roger Harrington, bleeding profusely from bullet wounds to the head.  



The Wingers' kitchen table
(photo source: True Crime XL)

Mark told police that he had been in the basement, working out on exercise equipment, when he heard strange noises and a thump coming from upstairs.  He grabbed his gun, a 45-caliber pistol, as he went to investigate and found Donnah on her knees and a man standing over her and striking her with a hammer.  It was then the man looked toward him and Mark shot him in the head to prevent him from striking Donnah again.  According to Mark, the man fell away from Donnah after being shot.  

The hammer, according to Mark, was his; Donnah had left it out to remind him to hang a hat rack.  He asked the police officers the identity of the man that had attacked his wife and was told it was Roger Harrington.  Mark seemed surprised and informed the officers that Harrington was the man that had driven Donnah and the baby back from the St. Louis airport, had acted unusual and had since been making harassing phone calls to the Winger residence.

The hammer
(photo source: True Crime XL)

Ambulances arrived to transport both Donnah and Roger to the hospital.  Roger died soon after arriving and Donnah died only minutes later.  

Although Mark said he expected to be taken into custody, as he had killed a man, the police declined to do so, feeling he was a victim rather than a killer.   Springfield Police Detective Charlie Cox was familiar with Roger, as he owned the trailer park where Roger and his then-wife had lived.  Cox had broken up a physical fight between the two.  

Detectives were also aware of Roger's history of psychiatric care and delusions. 

Mark Winger quickly became a hero not only with the Springfield police but within the Springfield community.  The Sangamon County District Attorney agreed, saying he would not file charges against Mark as he acted in self-defense.  

Donnah's family, although grief-stricken on losing her, rallied behind Mark and supported him.  They believed her chance encounter with Roger Harrington led to her tragic death.  Roger's family, however, disputed that he was a murderer and asked the police to look at the case closer, to no avail.

With the death of his wife, Mark hired a nanny by the name of Rebecca Simic to care for three-month old Bailey.  He collected a $150,000 life insurance policy on Donnah, as well as $25,000 from a crime victims' fund. The Chicago Tribune wrote an article on the crime; Mark wrote a letter to the paper thanking them for their support during his ordeal.  

Several months after hiring Simic, Mark began dating her.  Fifteen months after Donnah's murder, he married her.  He left his Jewish roots behind to convert to Christianity and be baptized.  He and his new wife became active in their church, with Mark doing construction work as a volunteer.  Their family eventually expanded from Bailey, whom Simic adopted, to three more children:  two girls and a boy.  Throughout, Donnah's mother and stepfather, Sara Jane and Ira Drescher, continued to be involved in Bailey's life and the lives of Mark and Rebecca Simic.  

Greed

Mark, however, made sporadic visits to the Springfield police to look into the case, which had been considered closed.  His visits caused lead detective Doug Williamson to become suspicious of him.  He decided to sue Bootheel Area Rapid Transportation, the former employer of Roger Harrington, for millions of dollars over Donnah's death.  The shuttle company, refusing to easily pay out Mark Winger, began its own investigation.  Worse for Mark, the Springfield Police reopened the case in 1999.

As part of their reinvestigation, police spoke to a woman named DeAnn Schultz.  DeAnn had been Donnah's best friend.  She also had been having an affair with Mark at the time of Donnah's death.  She said the affair started in July of 1995, only a month before Donnah was killed, and it had continued for several months after the murder.  She said that Mark had confided to her that he wanted out of the marriage and he wished to marry her so that he and DeAnn could raise Bailey together.  Further, he wanted Donnah out of the picture permanently and mentioned killing her, with DeAnn participating in the murder.  He also spoke to DeAnn about Roger Harrington.  

Mark himself admitted the affair with DeAnn but denied the rest of the story.  

The police began examining the physical evidence, especially the photographs of the crime scene that had been taken before Donnah and Roger were taken by ambulance to the hospital - some of which had not been seen by investigators originally.  They noted that Roger was lying in the opposite direction from which Mark Winger said he had fallen after being shot in the head.  

They also noted that when Roger came in the Winger home, he brought with him a can of soda and a pack of cigarettes, which were found on the kitchen table.  It seemed odd that someone who was planning a murder would bring such items with him into the house, but not a murder weapon.  It was also unusual that Roger chose to park his car in front of the Wingers' home, with no efforts to conceal it.  On the front seat, a single piece of paper had Mark Winger's name written on it, along with the Wingers' address and a notation of 4:30.  

Donnah had been frightened of Roger, so it made no sense that she would open the door to him.  And yet there was no sign of a break-in.  Additionally, she had been upstairs with Bailey and apparently left the baby girl alone in her bed to go downstairs and admit Roger.  

Investigators spoke to Roger's former roommates and all three of them claimed that Roger had received a call from Mark Winger, after which Roger told them he was going to the Winger home.  

Investigators spoke to the Wingers' next door neighbor, who recalled hearing the gunshots on that August afternoon Donnah and Roger died.  Despite Mark saying that he had shot Roger twice in succession, the neighbor recalled hearing the gunshots a few minutes apart.  Listening to Mark's 911 call, detectives overheard the sound of someone moaning in pain before Mark disconnected the call, telling the 911 operator that his baby daughter was crying and he needed to attend to her.  Taking this into account, along with the neighbor's recollection, detectives determined that it was Roger Harrington moaning in pain.  The first shot had not killed him and Mark, worried that he might possibly survive, had hung up the phone and shot Roger again.  

It started to become apparent that Mark had called Roger to lure him to the Winger home to kill him and frame him for Donnah's murder.

Arrest and Trial

Winger in custody
(photo source: True Crime XL)

Police arrested Mark Winger in 2001 on two counts of murder and held him on a $10 million bond.  Mark contacted a friend by the name of Jeffrey Gelman, a successful Florida real estate developer, to put up his bond but Gelman refused.  

During the trial, the owner of Bootheel Area Rapid Transportation, Raymond Duffy, testified that Mark had called to complain about Roger Harrington and he asked to talk directly to Roger.  Duffy checked with Roger first, who gave him the okay to providing Mark with Harrington's phone number.  

Prosecutors alleged that Mark called Roger around 9 a.m. on the morning of the murders from his office at the Illinois Department of Nuclear Safety.  During the call, the two men agreed to meet at the Winger home later that day to discuss the incident with Donnah and baby Bailey.  Roger left his home in rural Mechanicsburg around 3:30, an hour before his prearranged meeting with Winger.  

DeAnn Schultz, Donnah's best friend and the woman with whom Mark was having an affair with at the time of the murders, was given immunity in exchange for her testimony.  She testified about the affair and Mark's assertions that he wanted Donnah gone so that he and DeAnn could marry and raise baby Bailey.  The defense argued that DeAnn was an unreliable witness due to having undergone electroshock therapy following suicide attempts in the years since Donnah's murder.  

The defense also called a blood spatter expert who testified that the blood pattern at the crime scene supported Mark's story.

The jury deliberated 13 hours before finding Mark Winger guilty of murder.  The jurors found Roger's drink and cigarettes on the kitchen table telling, as well as the note left behind in his car and the fact that he did not bring a weapon with him.  

During sentencing, Mark continued to protest his innocence, even giving a lengthy speech to the judge where he asserted that Roger Harrington had killed Donnah.  

Mark Winger was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole and sent to the Pontiac Correctional Center in Pontiac, Illinois.

Rebecca Simic, who had stood by her husband and supported him throughout the trial, filed for divorce after his sentencing.  She left the area and changed her children's last names in an attempt to protect them.

The Story Continues

Terry Hubbell
(photo source: Forensic Files)

Mark Winger's story wasn't over though.  Shortly after arriving in Pontiac in August of 2002, he struck up a friendship with a fellow inmate named Terry Hubbell.  Like Winger, Hubbell was imprisoned for beating a woman to death.  Winger apparently thought he was the perfect partner in a murder-for-hire plot to eliminate a witness in his case - DeAnn Schultz, the woman he had promised to marry once Donnah was out of the picture.   Hubbell didn't think much of Winger's solicitation, since "everybody that is in prison pretty well says they would like to get rid of a witness in their case."  Winger was not to be deterred and eventually provided Hubbell with a 19-page handwritten note outlining his plans, which now included kidnapping Jeff Gelman, the man who had declined to bail out Winger in 2001.   Winger's plan was to extort huge sums of money in exchange for not hurting Gelman's family.  (A promise that would not be kept as Winger's plan was to not only kill Gelman but his family as well.) The money received from Gelman would then pay a hitman to kidnap DeAnn Schultz, who would then be forced to record and write statements that she had committed perjury during the trial and that Mark Winger was innocent.  Once that had been completed, Schultz would be killed but her death should be made to look like a suicide.  In true engineer style, Winger ordered that fingerprints to be found on Schultz' suicide note and the cassette tape in which she would state she had committed perjury be hers and her DNA was to be found on both the envelope and stamp that would contain the so-called suicide note.  

Should any money be left over after these schemes, Winger wanted an additional hit - that of his former father-in-law, Ira Drescher because "he's a song-of-a-gun father-in-law that I dislike."  For all his planning, however, Winger apparently didn't consider that he would be the common link in the deaths of the Gelman family, DeAnn Schultz and Ira Drescher.  

In 2006, Winger, then 48 years old, was indicted for solicitation.  He claimed that his murder plot were pure fantasy spurned on by his anger over his conviction, which he believed was politically motivated.   He also blamed his revenge fantasies on the "dehumanizing" conditions at maximum security prisons, which Winger described as "warehouses of men but . . . also insane asylums."  Hubbell, the man he had solicited, he said was "a sly fox" that was scamming him and he claimed to fear Hubbell.  

The jury didn't believe him and after only three hours of deliberation, he was convicted in June of 2007 and was gifted with two 35-year sentences that were tacked on to his life without parole sentence.  

The Winger case was fictionalized in an episode of CSI: NY and featured on 48 Hours.  

The Last Chapter 

Sara Jane and Ira Drescher
(photo source: Forensic Files)

Following Donnah's murder, Sara Jane and Ira Drescher raised over $40,000 to build Donnah's Playroom in Joe DiMaggio's Children's Hospital in Hollywood, Florida in 1998.  After their former son-in-law was exposed as Donnah's killer, they established Donnah's Fund in Broward County, Florida's Women in Distress Shelter.  The fund helped domestic violence victims to pay security deposits, furnishings and childcare after they exited the shelter and began new lives.    The Dreschers continue to speak on the subject of domestic violence and reside in Florida.

Rebecca Simic and her children; Bailey is at top left
(photo source: Forensic Files)

Although Rebecca Simic said her marriage to Mark Winger was a happy one, surrounded by their children and church family, she took the children and moved to Louisville, Kentucky following the 2002 trial.  Winger responded by threatening her life.  The two were divorced and Simic has remained private.  In a rare 2016 interview, she said she wanted to provide support to other single mothers and that family members of convicted murderers were living victims.  She also claimed that the entire experience with Winger only strengthened her religious faith.  

Roger Harrington's parents, Ralph and Helen, lived to see their son's name cleared and Mark Winger convicted of the murders of Donnah and Roger.  Ralph died in 2010 at the age of 73.  

Donnah (photo source: imdb)



Roger (photo source: CBS)

Mark Winger remains incarcerated at Menard Correctional Center in Illinois.  The formerly slender engineer has now reportedly beefed up to 215 pounds and added an eagle tattoo to his leg.  Very litigious, he mounted numerous lawsuits beginning in 2006 concerning where he can exercise.  He claimed he suffered from depression, panic attacks and physical illness caused by his exclusion from the prison's exercise yard.  As the exclusion forced him to remain within his cell, he argued that constituted cruel and unusual punishment and a violation of his Eighth Amendment rights.  Winger's arguments would drag on until 2013, when the Court of Appeals reaffirmed a lower court's ruling and effectively closed that chapter.  

Mark Winger, convicted killer 
(photo source: Forensic Files)


January 24, 2016

Barbara Stager Should Never Be Paroled

Barbara Stager, convicted husband killer and evil bitch

Murder between strangers is despicable enough but imagine the fear and pain of having someone you love and trust betray you in the worst way by taking your life and doing so for nothing more than financial gain.

Russ Stager
Barbara Stager did just this.  Twice.  Although no charges were brought against her for the gunshot death of her first husband Larry Ford in 1978, it's almost certain that Larry did not accidentally shoot himself (in the chest, no less) shortly after Barbara acquired a handgun and life insurance on Larry.  She was charged and convicted for the 1988 death of her second husband, Russ Stager, in which she stood to make a hefty life insurance collection as Russ' beneficiary. 

As looking into Larry's eyes while she killed him probably gave her an unsettled feeling (but no remorse) she changed her M.O. when dispatching Russ.  She claimed that her husband was sleeping with a loaded handgun under his pillow and while trying to remove it while Russ slept, she accidentally shot him in the head.  The story is as ridiculous now as it was back in 1988 - - not only that someone as well versed in guns as Russ Stager would sleep with a loaded handgun under his pillow (discounted by his family and former wife) but that out of everything in that bedroom, including Russ' entire body, that he was "accidentally" shot directly in the back of the head.  In other words, executed.  The trajectory of the bullet also indicated that he was shot from above and behind, in direct contradiction to Barbara's story of the bullet coming from underneath him.

She was convicted and sentenced to death by a North Carolina jury.  The right sentence in my opinion if you support the death penalty.  However, the death sentence was overturned and commuted to life in prison.  I have no doubt that it was only because Barbara is a woman.  If she had been a man that executed his wife for financial gain, the death sentence would have been upheld.

Her attorneys stressed that Barbara was a churchgoing woman, who had so much to still offer the world from her religious knowledge and support to her crafts.  They also stressed what a loving daughter and sister she was and that she was needed to continue being the loving mother of her two sons.  The last statement makes me irate.

Barbara proved herself to be anything but a loving and supportive mother when she obliterated her sons' father.  TWICE.  She killed their biological father, Larry Ford, without a thought or care as to how much emotional damage she would do to them.  She then married Russ Stager, who lovingly adopted Larry's sons and took them as his own.  He loved them, they loved him.  And Barbara cruelly killed Russ as she had Larry; again, with no consideration as to what this might do to her sons. 

She has already lucked out in that her death sentence was overturned.  She was given mercy and life when she gave Larry and Russ neither. 

Larry Ford's final resting place
Barbara had a parole hearing in 2009, in which parole was denied.  She had another hearing in 2012, again denied.  She was scheduled for a hearing in August of 2015 but I cannot find further information on that hearing.  She is still listed as incarcerated so I would guess she was again denied or that hearing was postponed.  I would hope that North Carolina never forgets the irreparable damage she did to the Ford and Stager families, as well as to her own children.  If Barbara Stager, the ultimate actress, who lied to, cheated on and then killed both of her husbands so that she might buy a nicer car, new jewelry and clothing, doesn't deserve to be locked up with the key thrown away, I don't know who does.

UPDATE:  As of April 15, 2020 Barbara remains behind bars at the North Carolina Correctional Institute for Women, where she should be.  Her next scheduled review is August 1, 2020

March 1, 2013

Jeffrey MacDonald: Killer Husband, Killer Father

Every February 17 I spend in contemplation about the victims of Jeffrey MacDonald.  As a true crime "afficionado" (for lack of better word), I have read a lot of cases and yet this one - - known as the Fatal Vision case by most - - has stuck with me and affected me the most.  I didn't know the victims - - I was not yet two years old at the time of the murders, my family didn't know them and I have absolutely no connection other than one that was conceived when I saw the miniseries back in 1984 or 1985 and then read Joe McGinniss' excellent book on the case.  It sprouted a seed that still lives on today, that has caused me to reread Fatal Vision many times, as well as every other book written on the case and many articles both in print and online.

Despite MacDonald's vast number of supporters, there really isn't a mystery here.  The physical evidence says that MacDonald killed his pregnant wife and two young daughters.  His own words are damning and incriminating.  And yet so many - - myself included - - have become obsessed with this case, desperately wanting to know what happened, how it happened and why

There is so much information and topics with regard to this case that I cannot simply make one post as I did with the Betty Broderick case.  So I am going to break down what I can and devote a post to each subject.  I will include the facts, as well as what is in dispute and, of course, my opinion.  I welcome any and all comments. 

For Colette, Kimberley and Kristen MacDonald, as well as the unborn baby boy Colette was carrying at the time of her death, you will never be forgotten.



June 21, 2012

Betty Broderick: Deadly Divorce

Betty & Dan - early 1980s

In the early morning hours of November 5, 1989, the most contemptuous and bitter divorce San Diego had ever seen came to a brutal and bloody end as Daniel T. Broderick III and his second wife Linda were shot in their marital bed by his ex-wife Elisabeth ("Betty").  Despite being big local news and making newscasts nationwide, with Betty both hailed as a hero by wronged women and as a blonde-headed devil by others, this should have come as no surprise to people who knew the inside story and especially, to Dan and Linda. 

Linda as a bride
Betty as a bride
TIMELINE

1965 - Daniel T. Broderick III and Elisabeth Bisceglia meet at a party in South Bend, Indiana
April 11, 1969 - Daniel T. Broderick III and Elisabeth Bisceglia are married in Eastchester, New York
January 1970 - Daughter Kimberly is born
July 1971 - Daughter Lee is born
1973 - After Dan graduates from Harvard Law School, the Broderick family moves to San Diego and Dan begins work with Cary, Gray
1976 - Son Danny is born
1978 - Dan leaves Cary, Gray to open his own practice
1979 - Son Rhett is born
1979 - Betty receives her real estate license
1983 - Dan hires Linda Kolkena as his personal assistant
1984 - Betty becomes fully knowledgeable about the extent of the affair between Dan and Linda after Dan admits the affair and requests a separation
1985 - Dan files for divorce
Early 1989 - After a four year legal battle, Dan and Betty Broderick are divorced
March 1989 - Betty purchases a .38 caliber Smith & Wesson handgun for "protection"
April 22, 1989 - Dan Broderick and Linda Kolkena are married
November 5, 1989 - Dan Broderick and Linda Kolkena Broderick are shot and killed by Betty Broderick
Dan & Linda

SENTENCING

Elisabeth Anne Broderick was convicted of two counts of second-degree murder in her second trial after her first trial ended in a hung jury.  She received two consecutive terms of fifteen years to life, as well as a two year sentence for illegal use of a firearm.  She is serving out her sentence at the California Institution for Women in Corona, California. 

Her first parole hearing was in January of 2010.  Betty was denied parole because she did not show remorse and did not acknowledge wrongdoing.  She may reapply in 2013 and is due for release in 2021. 

Two of her children spoke at the parole hearing, requesting release for their mother, while the other two requested that she remain incarcerated. 
Betty during one of her trials
CLOSING ARGUMENTS

The Broderick case, more than 20 years on, continues to create an interesting divide in public opinion.  There is a strong and vocal camp for Betty, who feels that she was wronged not only by Dan and Linda but also by the justice system and was driven to commit murder.  This camp feels that she has served her time and should be freed from prison.  There is an equally verbal camp who believes that Betty is a cold-hearted monster who drove Dan to Linda, who killed her ex-husband and his new wife out of jealousy and is exactly where she belongs and where she should stay.

Was Betty a victim?  Were Dan and Linda innocent victims?  Did Betty drive Dan away?  Was Dan cold and unfeeling?  Was Linda a shameless golddigging homewrecker?

Dan's final resting place; Linda's name is on the headstone but she has reportedly been laid to rest elsewhere

I think the truth, as is usually the case, lies somewhere in the middle.  It's a well known fact that all was not well in the Broderick marriage before Linda Kolkena entered the picture.  Both Betty and Dan seemed to place appearance, status and money fairly high on their priority list.  When you focus on those things solely, your marriage and your family is going to get lost in the shuffle.  I personally think that Dan was hitting his late-thirties, had been married for 15 or so years, and was looking for a little excitement.  He had a wife who was probably not easy to live with, four children, a busy and involving law practice, an exorbitant lifestyle and salary.   

I think Betty was a woman of her generation - - her role began and ended with being Mrs. Daniel T. Broderick.  She may not have been happy with Dan and with her marriage but she was happy with her place in life and in society.  In her world, you didn't throw away your marriage.  You didn't leave your wife for the office receptionist.  You didn't divorce. 

Bottom line, I think if Dan had been honest with Betty from the beginning and come clean about his affair with Linda, none of what followed would have happened.  There is no doubt in my mind that Betty would have taken Dan back if he had just taken a tumble with Linda and then returned home.  Just as there is no doubt in my mind that years of lying, years of being told she was imaging things, years of having his affair rubbed in his face, of not knowing what was happening, of not being able to control it and properly deal with it, caused Betty to lose it. 

I am not defending Betty, although I do understand why she did it.  Having been in a relationship with a self-involved cheater, liar and general narcissistic fuckwit myself in my early 20s, I remember the feeling of absolute devastation, the grief, the questions, the anger, the rage and, most of all, the hopelessness, helplessness and fear I felt.  I was so consumed by his wrongdoing that I felt powerless to help myself out of it - - for a time.  That, of course, is the difference between me and Betty.  She let Dan's actions and Linda's actions consume her entire life and take over - - permanently, it seems.  Even today, she still seems to act and react like it's still 1989.  Dan and Linda are both long dead and Betty is still being victimized by them. 

It's sad, really.  I can't help but have sympathy for the woman Dan and Linda called "The Beast".  She may have been a pain in the ass to live with but Dan married her.  He chose to have children with her.  He stayed married to her for sixteen years.  He let her raise their children by herself, work different jobs to allow him to go to school to get his M.D. and then his J.D.  She was thanked with a long-term affair, name-calling, questionable legal tactics and some flat out harassment.

So let me talk about Linda for a minute.  When I first read Until the Twelfth of Never back during my early 20s/narcissistic fuckwit period, I absolutely despised Linda Kolkena and had zero sympathy for her.  I felt she got what she deserved.  Twenty years later, I still see her as a selfish homewrecker but I do have a bit of sympathy for her.  Why?  Because she was headed down the same path as Betty.  She entered Dan Broderick's orbit as a receptionist with only a high school education.  She had been fired from Delta Airlines (where she was a flight attendant) for inappropriate behavior with a passenger.  She was "promoted" from temporary receptionist to Dan's legal assistant/paralegal due to his personal relationship with her.  As a degreed paralegal myself, it's insulting to insinuate that someone with no legal experience or background, nor the ability to even type, can man the phones for a couple of months and then just slide into a paralegal position and perform the job accordingly, as Linda's family and friends have insisted in the past.  Linda got the paralegal title and "job" because she was screwing her boss, that's the truth.  But just like Betty, Linda's life revolved around Dan.  She waited around for six years while Dan dithered over whether to leave Betty, end his marriage, marry his mistress.  Either she was in love, determined or both.  She broke up with Dan once, due to Dan's indecision on whether to end his marriage, but she didn't quit her job and the break didn't last long.  She turned away a man who claimed to genuinely love her to wait around for Dan.  Had she lived, she likely would have spent her married life much as Betty did - - doing for Dan, waiting for Dan, everything for Dan.  Except for her youth as an excuse, it's shocking that Linda appeared to have no sympathy, no compassion, no understanding for Betty - - the woman she was effectively replacing -- whatsoever.  On her own, or through Dan's vitriol, she viewed Betty as crazy, deranged, a monster, a beast.  I can't help but wonder if she and Dan had lived, if she would have found herself in Betty's shoes, or if she would have put Dan in Betty's shoes.  A question that will never be answered. 

Did Linda love Dan?  Or Dan's money?  Did Dan love Linda?  It's been said that Linda cheated on Dan weeks before their wedding with an ex-boyfriend.  It does make you wonder how deep her commitment was.  For his part, Dan strung Linda along for years, while cohabiting with his wife.  Later on, she was concerned with Betty breaking into their house and expressed this concern to a fellow attorney.  She even requested that Dan wear a bulletproof vest at their wedding.  Dan refused.  Neither did he act upon her fear of Betty breaking into the house; there was no alarm when Betty did indeed commit her deadly break-in.   Perhaps most importantly, when their bodies were found on the morning of November 5, 1989, Linda looked as though she had been moving toward Dan, perhaps for protection, when she was shot and killed.  Dan's body was located on the floor, away from Linda, as if he had been moving away from the bed to save himself, not trying to protect his new bride.  Maybe the blast from the gun propelled him from the bed, we may never know.  But Dan seemed to continually act in his own best interests, not in his children's, not in Betty's and not in Linda's. 

This story is just sad all around and claims many victims.  Dan and Linda Broderick lost their lives.  They may not have been sympathetic but their actions did not constitute murder.  I see Betty as a victim as well.  She was (and continues to be) a victim of Dan and Linda but she's also a victim of herself.  She's locked up physically in a prison cell but she appears to be locked up mentally as well.  She simply cannot let go of what Dan did.  Listening to her you would think Dan committed adultery three months ago, not thirty years ago.   

I don't think Betty will ever be paroled and if she is, it won't be for a while.  She has never expressed remorse over the murders.  She has never admitted that she went to that house to murder Dan and Linda.  If she would admit these things, she may likely be given parole.  I also think she's being used as a poster child of sorts, for the San Diego legal system to show the public what will happen if you try to take them on.  Many people have committed murder, and first-degree murder, and received less time than Betty.  I'm not saying that twenty years compensates for the loss of two lives but there most certainly is not equality in the system.

The most easily forgotton victims in this case are the Broderick children - -now adults.  Dan's selfish actions fractured the family.  Betty's selfish actions took not only their father away permanently but also removed their mother from their lives.  In that sense, Betty did far more to destroy the Broderick family; she left the Broderick boys, still minors at the time, orphaned, dependent on various family members to raise them and care for them.  I feel sorry for them.  They grew up in a house parented by two people who clearly should not have married and who acted in a more childish manner than the actual children themselves.

For more information on the Broderick case and murders, the best source is Bella Stumbo's outstanding book, The Twelfth of Never.  It's unbiased, setting forth the facts in a straightforward manner and does not take sides. 

There have been two movies made about the murders and Betty's two trials, Betty Broderick: A Woman Scorned and Her Final Fury:  Betty Broderick, the Last Chapter.  Both movies star Meredith Baxter, who bears a remarkable resemblance to Betty.  However, both movies were made with the cooperation of Dan Broderick's brother, Larry, and the Kolkena family and as such, are heavily biased to represent that Dan and Linda were not involved until after his divorce, that no harassment went on, no shady legal manuevers and Betty was an absolute loon from the get-go.  Meredith Baxter's performance is excellent, if inaccurate, and the movies should be viewed only for entertainment value and not for specifics on the case.

The murder house in Hillcrest



The back door where Betty snuck in


Dan & Linda's bedroom where they were murdered