August 8, 2020

Remembering Jay Sebring

 

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A smiling Jay (source: Tumblr)

Fifty-one years ago tonight, Jay Sebring became one of six people (if you include an unborn baby) who lost their lives in one of the most violent, gruesome, and senseless murders in U.S. history. But Jay was so much more than just a victim.

Born in Birmingham, Alabama as the fourth and final child of an accountant and housewife, he was raised in a very average middle-class existence in Southfield, Michigan. Following graduation from Detroit Catholic Central High School, he enlisted for what would turn out to be a four-year stint in the Navy. That enlistment changed the course of his life, as he found a passion for cutting hair — which he did for the enlisted men during the Korean War.

Finding his calling, he journeyed to Los Angeles, where he changed his name from Thomas John Kummer to the more stylish and sexy Jay Sebring. Following barber school, he spent three years in tutelage at women’s beauty parlors before striking out on his own. His Sebring salon, one of the first salons for men in the United States, became as trendy as its location — the corner of Fairfax and Melrose in West Hollywood. Sleek and modern, with masculine wood paneling in the main salon, Sebring catered to his celebrity clientele, which began flooding the salon, by having a private entrance for them, as well as a VIP room. At a time when barbers charged $1.50 for a haircut, he could command $25 and up, thanks to his revolutionary Sebring Method, which involved using scissors rather than clippers and cutting the hair to the style of the head and in the direction of the hair growth. Sebring also encouraged daily washing of the hair before styling and using hair spray rather than Brylcreem or pomade, which was the standard (along with infrequent washings.)

A kind, deep-thinking and stylishly sophisticated man, Jay became the first male celebrity stylist to such stars as Warren Beatty, Marlon Brando, Henry Fonda, Paul Newman, and many others. He designed Jim Morrison’s famous shaggy ‘do and flew to Las Vegas every three weeks to tend to the locks of Frank Sinatra and Sammy Davis, Jr. Wealthy oilman Saul West paid him $500 (plus expenses) to fly to Dallas to cut his hair.

His success and popularity led him to going directly to the set of 1960’s Spartacus to personally tend to star Kirk Douglas’ hair and to be the lead hair stylist for The Thomas Crown Affair in 1968 and Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid in 1969.

Jay was instrumental in the film career of Bruce Lee, who he met in 1964 in Long Beach at the International Karate Championships. Jay introduced Lee to Bill Dozier, a television producer who cast Lee in The Green Hornet.

Although he had no acting aspirations himself, Jay appeared in a December 1966 episode of Batman (also produced by Dozier) playing a character called Mr. Oceanbring, a clever take on his own name. He also played a frontier barber in a 1967 episode of The Virginian.

In 1967, he founded Sebring International, as a means to franchise his salons internationally, teach his hair cutting method, and sell his haircare products. In addition to his flagship salon in Los Angeles, he opened salons in New York, London, and San Francisco. His San Francisco salon opened less than three months before his death; he was due to be in San Francisco the day after his death.

Although married in 1960 to a model, most of Jay’s acquaintances agreed that the love of his life was Sharon Tate, whom he met in 1964, after he and his wife separated and their divorce was pending. He and Sharon dated for three years, the relationship only floundering when she met director Roman Polanski on a film set and fell in love with him. Despite this, Jay and Sharon remained the best of friends. Sharon’s last home, the one on Cielo Drive that she shared with Roman, was only a mile from Jay’s Easton Drive residence.

That night of Friday, August 8, 1969, Jay drove his black Porsche up the hill to Cielo Drive where he, Sharon, and the Polanskis' two houseguests, Voytek Frykowski and Abigail Folger, went to dinner at El Coyote restaurant.  Returning home around 10:30, he and Sharon went to the master bedroom, where she could rest and he could sit and talk to her. Frykowski took a nap on the sofa in the living room and Folger changed into a nightgown and read “Madame Bovary” in her bedroom. They had less than two hours to live.

Jay, who had trained in karate with Bruce Lee, was no match against the knife and gun-wielding Tex Watson, who was high on speed and stood a good half-foot taller than the stylist. He was reportedly defending Sharon when he was shot, stabbed seven times, and kicked repeatedly in the face by the boot-wearing and blood lusting Watson. When he was found the next day, only feet away from the body of Sharon, Jay was still wearing her high school graduation ring, which she had given him during their courtship, on a chain around his neck.

In the half-century since his death, Jay has been remembered primarily as a murder victim; a famous one, thanks to the grisly nature of the crimes and the celebrity connection. But he was so much more than that. He was a revolutionary genius in his industry, a person that changed it so much his hair cutting method is still used today and is considered an industry standard. Sebring International survives today, although had Jay lived it’s hard to know how many salons and products he would have today.

Jay is remembered by those who knew him as a kind, thoughtful man who was unfailingly loyal. His last actions in life were those of being thoughtful and loyal to Sharon Tate, whom he defended until the very last.

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Jay Sebring, October 10, 1933 — August 9, 1969 
(source: Hollywood Reporter)

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